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The Woman Who’s Never Settled

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Symbol: The Sun
A fixed, radiant center. Not waiting. Not orbiting. Just burning—whole, bright, and unapologetically herself.

 

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You didn’t wait.
You lived.
You became the kind of woman people whisper about—
not because you were scandalous,
but because you stayed whole in a world that told you to split.

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You didn’t shrink to be chosen.
You didn’t perform need to attract company.
You didn’t mistake proximity for partnership.

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You learned how to sleep in a bed by yourself and still feel warm.
You learned how to hold your own ache without turning it into a campaign.
You learned that being “unmatched” doesn’t mean unwanted—
it means unduplicated.

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You are not orbiting anyone.
You are the Sun.
Fixed. Fierce. Bright by nature, not permission.

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And anyone who steps into your field will feel it.
Not as invitation—
but as recognition.

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You are not “still single.”
You are not intimidating.
You are not hard to love.

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You are simply not willing to dim anymore.
And the one who meets you now will arrive when you are already shining.

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© 2025 Nikkia Gumbs · The House of the Sun. This work is free to use, feel, remember, and share. It is not to be packaged, resold, or turned into a commodity. You may bring it into your gatherings, your journal, your therapy, your rituals. But no part of this system is for sale, nor is it available to be sold in any shape or form. The House of the Sun and the Joyfront are fields, not products. And it stays whole only if it stays free.  If you would like to utilize this work in your group or organization and are unsure if your usage violates these terms, please contact us.  Detailed information about usage can be found here

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